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Eclectic Homeschooling: When It All Comes Together

Many, many moons ago, my beautiful little boy came home from his first day at a new school, crying and asking me to homeschool him. Having had him in private schools since preschool, homeschooling was really not anything that was on our radar.

Two weeks prior, I distinctly remember telling some new friends who homeschooled, “I’m sure it’s a fine idea, but y’all are nuts.”

Well, back to that fateful day: my son was excited to start a new school, as we had just moved to a new city and state. He loved his old school and teachers and had no reason to think that he wouldn’t love his new one. Then, we walked into the classroom.

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Needless to say, three days later I had taught him how to daydream without getting caught (yes, I was reduced to that). I used that weekend to read through no less than a dozen books on homeschooling.

The following Monday, I dropped over $600 on homeschool curriculum for a 6-year-old because I had no idea what else to do.

Eventually, we figured out a rather eclectic combination of things that worked for us, but we encountered plenty of roadblocks along the way. Hopefully, I can help you avoid many of them!

Our First Year

Being a teacher’s kid and having grown up helping and tutoring in my parents’ elementary classrooms, I thought I had a pretty good idea of how to teach a 6-year-old. And I did, in a classroom.

I had no idea, however, how to structure a day for my newly-homeschooled son.

We scheduled out our day into dutiful little 15-minute blocks. (You can already imagine how well that one worked with an energetic 6-year-old boy!)

When that didn’t work, we tried block scheduling. (That lasted all of two weeks before it fizzled out.) We tried everything I could find, since my training told me that he needed the structure of a definite schedule. None of them worked.

As far as curriculum went, we ended up going through four full curriculums before first grade was over…to the tune of around $2,500.

My husband told me that if I planned to homeschool for second grade, I was going to have to go back to work to pay for it.

Our Journey to Eclectic Homeschooling

Well, I couldn’t really go back to work, at least not in the things I was trained to do, as I had a 7-year-old at home. (This was 2005, back in the days before much existed for work-at-home options.)

So, I started to ask questions. I went to our state homeschool conventions and found a whole new world of curriculum options.

And I figured out that all-in-one packages are not always the way to go. When they work, it’s awesome, but some kids just plain need to learn different subjects in different ways. Mine is one of them.

As I was finding new curriculum options, I was also researching all the different homeschooling methods. For our first year, we pretty much stuck to the traditional text and workbook style, since it was the only thing I knew.

There are a lot of great curriculum options for this method, and I’ve used many of them over the years. Implementing the entire thing just didn’t work for us.

Moving Through Different Methods

Then we moved on to Classical, which at the time (and as far as I could find online) often meant doing everything according to A Well Trained Mind.

 

Beginner's Guide to Eclectic Homeschooling

After overdosing a bit on (what I thought was) the Classical method, we tried Charlotte Mason. I absolutely adored the gentleness, creativity, and, well, quaintness that I found in books like A Charlotte Mason Companion.

I even read Charlotte’s original volumes and absorbed everything I could. I went to Ambleside Online, downloaded the lesson plans, and hit the library.

And, overachiever that I am, I probably overdid it a little. Not sure my rough and tumble kiddo was quite into hymn study, and he insisted on taking the lessons that he was interested in far past the 20-minute limit, but we did really enjoy the rest of it.

A couple of years into homeschooling, we stumbled upon unit studies. My son had asked to learn more about the Anglo-Saxons, as we ran across them in his Classical method history book, but I couldn’t find any resources.

So, I went online and found a unit study. Finding this was purely by chance, as the thought of unit studies scared the dickens out of me at the time. But they ended up becoming a key feature of our homeschool throughout the elementary and middle school years!

I even became a convention rep and speaker for a company that made lapbook units for several years and helped produce or manage of their projects.

What Finally Worked

However, my son’s learning needs (profoundly gifted with severe learning ‘glitches’) required me to add quite a bit to most of the pre-published units that were available. We even managed to have to extend Konos units, which are pretty darn meaty.

When each of these methods proved to “good, but not great” for my son, we would go into Unschooling mode while I researched our next option.

Unschooling actually turned out to be a terrific method for him, but he likes me to plan out his resources and schedules.

He can do it (and will) when he needs to. He would just much rather dig into the ideas, methods, and knowledge than spend time planning. (And I love the research and planning, so it’s kind of a win-win.)

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Enter Eclectic Homeschooling

Eventually, I figured out that while none of these methods was “just right” for us, a mixture that could easily shift to meet our needs was perfect.

I learned to become extremely flexible in my planning. We sat down a couple times a year to discuss and prioritize what he was interested in studying, and then I got to work.

I happen to love researching pretty much everything related to homeschooling and learning (which is partly why I now do what I do!), so I would find resources that I thought would meet his needs. Then, I would bring him along to the store or convention so he could check out each option and let me know what he wanted to work with.

We largely ended up with a Classical approach to history and languages and a Charlotte Mason approach to nature, the arts, and literature.

For math and science, we often switched back and forth between traditional textbooks and unit studies (or just combined the two).

We added in history and literature unit studies whenever they seemed to fit, and used an Unschooling approach toward electives (everything from Game Theory to Philosophy).

No two years looked the same…one year, he chose the Hard Drive program from BJU and mixed it with Sonlight. The year before, had been filled with unit studies that were chock full of everything.

Continuing on with Eclectic Studies

It’s a bit weird, but it worked for us. And it still does! My son is pursuing two majors and three minors in college. Even with this schedule, he still unwinds by digging into anything from political policy to Oscar Wilde.

Sometimes an assigned project in one of his classes doesn’t spark his curiosity. When this happens, he politely asks his professor if he can create an extended version. He knows that it’s on him to do it well.

For him, Eclectic homeschooling is a method that taught him to live what he learns. And that’s part of the purpose of teaching our children, as far as I can see.

Eclectic Homeschooling Coming Together

Which Learning Styles Does Eclectic Homeschooling Work For?

Good news! It works for all of learning modalities and learning styles. Eclectic homeschooling is incredibly flexible. It allows you to tailor your curriculum choices and teaching methods to meet your child’s needs. Whether your child needs structure or variety, worksheets or hands-on projects or movies and audiobooks, Eclectic homeschooling has got you covered. (Our Audible Membership has come in very handy for this!)

Implementing Eclectic Homeschooling

Eclectic homeschooling can be intimidating to many families. It requires you, as the parent, to understand several different methods.

You need to choose and implement the parts of each that work well for your family. This takes some work! It also takes a bit more confidence to pick from among the different methods and combine the pieces that are most effective.

Honestly, it takes trial and error. It takes being willing to change things up when they’re not working and to forge your own path. But if it’s what will work best for your child, you can do it. Trust me. I’ve been there!

My Favorite Resources

437025: The Ultimate Guide to Homeschooling, 10th Anniversary Edition The Ultimate Guide to Homeschooling, 10th Anniversary Edition
By Debra Bell / Apologia Educational MinistriesBell’s best-selling manual—now revised and updated for a new generation! Features subject-by-subject guidelines and program recommendations; creative solutions for burnout, budgeting, and time management; tips on unlocking your child’s learning potential, motivating reluctant learners, managing toddlers, and multilevel teaching; and more—plus a guide to using the Internet and other technology to your advantage! 528 pages, softcover from Apologia.
437026: The Ultimate Guide to Homeschooling Teens The Ultimate Guide to Homeschooling Teens
By Debra Bell / Apologia Educational MinistriesThe Ultimate Guide to Homeschooling Teens is designed to help you and your teen successfully transition to the college and adult years. No matter what your after -homeschool plans-college or the workforce, Ivy League or tech school-learn how your decisions now can help down the road.Learn:

  • Tools for developing important critical and creative thinking skills
  • Study-smart strategies for maximizing learning potential
  • How to help your teen discern his or her gifts and calling
  • The best ways to earn college credit at home
  • Tips for preparing your junior high student for high school
  • How to receive merit-based scholarships and maximum financial aidSoftcover.

Wrapping It Up

I’d love to hear from you! Do you have any questions about Eclectic homeschooling? I’m here to help – and your questions may help others!

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